Birthday Poems for Ex-Girlfriend: Constantly staring at your ex’s Facebook thinking whether to send her a birthday wish or not? Having second thoughts about giving her a small gift? As long as you don’t cross any boundaries, rake up bitter memories of your breakup or instigate feelings of anger, there’s nothing wrong in saying that you miss her and cherish your friendship. Sending her a sweet quote in a greeting card is sure to make her break into a nostalgic smile. If you want to keep a safe distance, wish her on Facebook or Twitter with a platonic message. Just avoid bringing in a romantic angle – she might have started dating someone else.